Our Women’s Ministries group is lead by Annette Noel. Annette has been involved in the leadership of Women’s Ministries for several years. She is passionate about Women’s Ministries. A highlight of the Women’s Ministries department is the yearly Incredible Joy retreat that is held each spring. Annette and her staff put together a fantastic weekend that ministers to all the ladies that attend. Women come from several different churches to attend.
Throughout the year there is a program entitled “Sister Blessing Sister”. The emphasis of this is for ladies to send words of encouragement to other ladies throughout the year. The lady receiving the notes and cards of encouragement doesn’t know who that person is until that has sent the notes until she is revealed in May.
Another ministry the ladies are planning to be involved with this year is a ministry to shut-ins. A burden had been placed on Annette’s heart to visit those who are no longer able to get to church. This is in the infancy stage and just beginning to become reality.
The book club is another ministry that helps the ladies to get together on aregular basis. The ladies come together once a month to discuss a book that they have read the previous month. The ladies share what they received from the book and how they have applied what they have read to their life. Some very rich discussion is shared.
If you have any questionsyou can contact Annette at
20 Shughart Rd. Carlisle, Pa. 17013 243-4926
What Ministers to a Woman?
Today like never before, women are hurting. They are overwhelmed with responsibilities and inundated with lies. Many come from unhealthy and dysfunctional backgrounds that have left them ill-equipped to handle life’s pressures. Due to heavy responsibilities and dissolving families, many women feel isolated and lonely.
When a woman walks into a church, she is looking for someone to care, encourage, and listen to her—she desperately needs the Body of Christ. She wants to know that she is not alone, and she needs the hope that a personal relationship with Jesus can provide.
We can discover what best ministers to a women when we understand her design. Genesis 2:18-24 reveals that God created the first woman, Eve, with distinct differences from her counterpart, Adam. “Adam was created from the ground and was assigned tasks. [But] Eve was created from Adam’s side. She was designed specifically for relationship—created to meet Adam’s relational need and equipped to bear and nurture children.”1
Since creation, men and women have been distinctly different. Here are some general differences between most (although not all) men and women:
- Emotionally: Women process emotions through talking; they are more emotionally expressive. Men process emotions through action; they are more emotionally reserved.2
- Verbally: Women communicate mainly to express themselves; they expand on details. Men communicate mainly to exchange information; they condense details.3
- Relationally: The female hormone oxytocin promotes a woman’s stronger desire to bond.4
While sermons can challenge and inspire a woman, genuine life-change happens when someone enters her emotional world, connects with her, and encourages her on a personal level. She experiences the most growth within relationships that provide empathy, presence, conversation, and emotional connection.
It would be unhealthy for a male pastor or leader to have the relationship described above with a woman in his congregation. The Bible tells us that women are the best models of godly behavior for other women (Titus 2). Women understand women. Allowing women to minister to other women will prevent unhealthy emotional attachments between male pastors and women in the congregation.5 This is why ministry to women, by women, is a vital part of a healthy congregation.
1Kerry Clarensau, Secrets: Transforming Your Life and Marriage (Springfield: Gospel Publishing, 2009), 29.
2Jimmy and Karen Evans, Marriage on the Rock (Ventura: Gospel Light, 2006), 216, 217.
3H. Norman Wright, Communication:Key to Your Marriage (Ventura: Regal Books, 2000), 140, 142.
4 Beverly White Hislop, Shepherding a Woman’s Heart (Chicago: Moody Publishers, 2003), 60.